Dads and daughters dating
My girls won't know any different than their dad being every bit as engaged when they're 15 as he was when they were 5. I won't be mistaken for Billy Blanks, but we take health and wellness seriously at our house. We celebrate big things like a 10-year-old trip, but we also take the little things seriously. Don't disappear when their emotions and bodies start changing.
I wish I could say I do this consistently, but even once every few months is better than not at all. It's your job to tell your daughter, and then remind her a million times, that what's on the inside of her is what will make her go far in life. Model being a dad who gets down on her level and admits that you don't have it all together. I certainly don't have it all figured out, but I have learned 15 things about raising girls these last 11 years. No one else on Earth can assume your role as daddy. I had to explain that I was already married to her amazing mother. When my girls are in my car, you'll be able to catch us rocking out to the following Pandora stations: Taylor Swift, One Direction, Cody Simpson, Kidz Bop Radio, Katy Perry, you get the point. If you take one thing out of this entire list, make it this. But fight for your marriage and make it a priority. Our oldest is almost 11, so we haven't hit the dreaded teenage years, but I say bring them on. So it's not possible every single time, but make the effort to get to her stuff. I hate the commercial of the dad at the daughter's dance recital who is watching a football game on his phone. Especially in an era of constant information and entertainment. Your daughter will let you down, make huge mistakes, and maybe even turn her back to you for a season, but don't ever let her doubt your love for her. If you're doing it right, she'll want to marry someone like you one day. Not stations I'd listen to on my own (with one exception -- I love Taylor Swift), but when it lights them up, it lights me up. One of the best things you can do for your daughter is to love her mom well. The seasons of life when I lose focus on dating Brooke (my wife) are also the same seasons when our children have more issues. Love your wife, make time to date her, take her on trips, and show your kids that she is a bigger priority than they are. Dads who are further down the road than I am regret not being more emotionally engaged with their teenage daughters. A friend once told me that my job is to be the Chief Memory Maker of the house. I love a good football game as much as the next guy, but clap as hard for your daughter's recital as you would on your couch watching sports.