My boyfriend is using dating sites
I was wondering if you could help me with something that has been playing on my mind recently…It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use before he met me.
I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.They are pacing the relationship in their own minds to a degree. At this moment, today, right now, you are most likely more invested and farther ahead in this relationship than he is. Managing your emotions is something that you will be glad you did later down the road as opposed to going bat shit crazy on him.We are not in our Feminine Energy when we act bat shit crazy and it’s just not attractive. Consider how you discovered this gut wrenching piece of information.I told him how it really upset me and how disrespectful I found it, especially as it was a dating website.He responded with saying that although he didn’t see anything wrong in it “it’s nothing”, he could see that it had upset me and so when I asked him to delete it, he went ahead and deleted his account.