What to expect when dating a nigerian man
Have him help out with the ingredients while you cook.Ask his presence in the kitchen; tell him to keep you company or help with the dishes as you cook.
Make your meal time special occasions so that he looks forward to each time you cook.
I am hoping this is a slip of tongue so I ask for explanation. So a man can think that he wants to be with an independent woman, he wants somebody just as intelligent, somebody that can take care of herself etc The truth is, many men (more so our Nigerian and African brothers) do not want that because they still can not manage seeing women that are totally free from their control.
I am not saying they purposely give those impressions because more often than not, we don’t know how we will react until we are in those situations.
And let me define what I mean because in this part of the world, once the word ‘independence’ and ‘women’ come in the same sentence, people’s antennae go up.
An independent woman simply means a woman who take care of herself and is contented financially, emotionally or otherwise whether a man is in her life or not. Show him a deep admiration for his abilities, qualities and achievements.